The overseas child, everywhere tumbles traces crawls, the parents very little hold their 0.1 years later, the child will toddle, does not need to go to hug. But here has many adults, for fear that the child stumbles the clash, always spoils excessively, hugs tightly does not put, does not let child walk. Therefore, many children walk late, some are purely is disinclined to walk, routinely outstretches both hands: Hugs! Window-shops the market, say nothing, adult has rather been hugging the child, is actually tired to be unbearable. Even, child 34 annual revenue kindergartens, but can also discover that many grandfathers paternal grandmother were still hugging the grandson to the bus stop. Is the heart is too soft?
The child copes with adult to have a secret weapon: Cry! This move hundred try the lark. As soon as the child cries, the big will of the people have been soft, often will be attacked by the tear, the psychological defense line completely will also collapse. Even if clearly knew that this is an unreasonable request, but not being able to stand up to child cries, has to consider as finished, considers as finished! All promises him! Must eat anything, satisfies him; Wants any toy, buys to him; It is not willing to eat meal well, the biscuit, the chocolate lets him eat not to stop, for fear that is awfully hungry; Three meals a day are not willing to begin, adult a bucket bucket feeds, but also has the reason: The child is also small! Finally,creative baby gifts, has entered the kindergarten, but also quarrels is wanting aunt to feed, otherwise fasts. This is the heart too soft result.
Entered the elementary school, adult ought to the child to feel relieved that has dropped? Also not so. Every day is on vacation from school, the school gate mouth always crammed full silver hair race, one all stretches out the neck awaits eagerly 0.1 looked that oneself child came out,cute girls clothes, the fruit, the dessert fills hastily, even drink, popsicleIs similar to the salute from the battlefield down officers and men. To three fourth grades, the kindergarten, started not to be familiar with very much, always cries, teacher then delivers her goes home. Packs off teacher, the mother does not let small mentality passing through the gate. Cried a while, the mentality saw does not have an effect, also asked mother to deliver itself to go back. Mother still did not yield, to insist that lets her go back:
Is good child oneself goes back, Lu Lu is a clever child.
Small mentality's mother closed the gate, causes the small mentality to break thoroughly has relied on mother's possibility. Although she has cried in the wrong side of the door, but sees mother not to yield,cool kids clothing, had to return to the kindergarten (this kindergarten in plot).
The yellow mentality has become the middle-school student, mother is insisted that lets her matter make 0.1 time mentality to arrive at the school to rehearse an item on a program, because walks hurriedly, forgot the recording tape in the family, mother had discovered might not tell her. And so on mentalities quickly to school when only then discovered that has not brought the recording tape, asks mother with the public telephone to send to hurriedly to her. Mother's manner is firm:
One forgot itself belt to come back to take.
It is not good, mother, I went back takes the scallop to delay rehearses. The mentality starts to ask mother.
You arrive at the school to acknowledge the mistake first to teacher, then requested that teacher adjusts yours program an accent, then goes home to take the scallop. Mother set the request.
The mentality did according to mother's request. From now, before the mentality each time goes out, always the first thing which should bring prepares, then has not forgotten.
Some guardians are always willing for the child to make this to make that everything does for the child, the child had the dependence. If the guardian ruthless under heart comes at the right moment suitably the region which places the child fights to win or die, forces child to go to want to seek livehood the road, if can insist for a long time, must be able to receive the good effect.
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